Sooner or later in life, many of us will know what it’s like to really miss another person only to allow them to seemingly be unaware we exist. Unrequited love is painful, difficult and a sad side aftereffect of the human condition; and few of us ever truly forget the folks we have genuinely loved or desired. Brujos It is therefore no real surprise that your brain, fuzzied with unrequited love and burning with desire, begins to show and try to find less conventional ways of attracting an individual’s attention.
Most Wiccans practice some kind of spell-working or spell-casting, yet many shy from the thought of love spells. Some believe them to be dark or black magic, as such spells try to restrict the natural means of things and damage the free will of the recipient. Others believe any kind of magic is interfering with nature, and therefore it is either all fine or not fine at all, and agree to love spells in principle and perhaps in practice.
So while love spells definitively exists, the jury is out on whether they actually work. The tricky issue, you see, is free will.
Free will is an essential facet of the human emotional range; it’s what gives us the ability to think, to deduce, to decide, to experience emotion. If that free will is interfered with by another person employing a love spell, you are setting nature at odds.
Someone who has been on the receiving end of a love spell may feel love, but that doesn’t mean they trust it. What they are actually experiencing is a poor, magically induced sense of love; the butterflies in the stomach, the heady want to be with someone. But those emotions and feelings are often quashed and dismissed as false if anyone does not have any real inclination towards you, and you’ll be right back again to where you started.
Lust and Love
The key issue with love spells is that free will, meaning a spell can just only draw attraction and desire, although not actual love. Love is a not known quantity, not understood to even science, and there is no means of spell-casting to influence it.
But desire… now, desire could be influenced. It’s an easy biological process, and if a love spell is done right, desire and attraction can rise in the subject. Done right, this desire will turn to you, and suddenly you become the focal point of attention.
However, it isn’t love. It’s lust; burnable, exciting and often fleeting lust. You can’t manufacture or spell-cast up genuine love.
Draw Them To You
However, what a love spell may do is draw someone’s attention to you. You can cause those feelings of lust, and then once you are in a person’s life and being considered as a romantic partner, love can begin to develop naturally. Whether you are confident with the initial enchantment is a decision for your own conscience, however, many do find a love spell gets someone enthusiastic about them long enough for genuine love to develop, ceasing the necessity for magic and allowing a relationship to flourish.